Handmade hair accessories

Our trip up north to the Wirral the other week was a whirlwind of wedding planning, but I managed a few moments of calm looking out to sea through the rooftop studio windows of friend and designer Emma Embery. Emma is the most talented embroiderer I’ve ever met – she creates intricate large-scale embroideries on dresses and shawls, making it look effortless when it must be anything but.

She is also a true vintage magpie – rummaging in markets and antiques shops for pretty bits of lace, antique pearls and delicate fabrics to turn into hair accessories, jewellery or appliqués. She has very kindly offered to make me a bespoke head piece as a wedding gift – I can’t wait to see the results.

Here are some pics from her lovely studio:

A simple idea from Anthropologie

If I had to live in a shop, that shop would be Anthropologie - the beautifully eclectic, colourful and inspirational American import that sources goods from around the world, hikes the price up, and displays it so gorgeously that you cant resist wanting to buy everything in sight. Anyway, last time I was in there (drooling over hot chocolate bowls and patchwork bed spreads), I spotted this simple display of lavender sprigs taped to the wall, and took a surreptitious photo.

Recycling vintage embroideries

My eagle-eyed colleague Sarah came back from a trip to the Paris flea markets last week with another bundle of beautiful vintage embroideries - this time some pretty cotton table mats which are partly finished, leaving the faint outline of flowers still to embroider.

So the question is, what to do with them? I could try and finish them, but time is ticking and I quite like them as they are! I could make them into cushion covers for the chairs (see pics below), as my mum and I have started doing with Sarah’s last Parisian haul of embroideries (and the other lacey bits we have collected). Or we could use them as place mats for the top table? Or how about Sarah’s idea to ask for guests’ input in the creative process?

Here are some of the (69p Ikea) cushions that we have started re-covering:

Vintage hen weekends

If the idea of being dressed up as Joan from Mad Men is far more appealing than L Plates and a pink tutu, then these hen weekend ideas could be your ideal alternative to the usual girlie getaway:

Firstly, Vintage Vacations on the Isle of Wight – where you can bed down in a 50s airstream caravan complete with fabulous retro décor, stay in a quirky beach shack, or spend a weekend in a converted tabernacle where you’d have trouble prising yourself away from the wood burning stove it's so cosy.

An Airstream

The Shack

The Mission

The Bungalow

Up North, there is the bohemian La Rosa caravan park in Witby – a cornucopia of kitsch abodes, from a converted truck and old-fashioned gypsy caravans, to a big top tent - along with plenty of eccentric touches such as an open air roll-top bath in the orchard!

La Rosa

For something a little more luxurious (with prices to match), British homewares company Pedlars has just opened the spectacular Balbegno Castle. Kitted out in their signature heritage-inspired style, it would make the perfect vintage retreat.

Balbegno Castle

Vintage Nirvana… Kate Halfpenny’s studio

Vintage Heaven does exist – you’ll find it behind a hand-painted screen that hides rails of delicate dresses in Kate Halfpenny’s London studio. The moment you step inside, you can’t help but fall for the idea of becoming a Halfpenny bride – and fall I most certainly did - for a beautiful 50s number that she is currently recreating for me.

But back to her studio… the huge space, hidden down a cobbled mews in Camden, is a feast for the eyes: vintage gowns, fur stoles and lace caplets are hung haphazard among strings of antique necklaces, or draped over old-fashioned tailor’s mannequins; silk ribbons and trims spill out from the drawers of wooden cabinets, while old-fashioned glass bell jars display her new jewellery collection.

Don’t expect the usual bridal experience – Kate’s no-nonsense approach is refreshing and she has an expert eye in picking out the right vintage dress from her collection, or will make a vintage-style dress to order. I went a bit snap-happy at my last appointment there (no pics of the dress I’m afraid though!):

Polka dot plates

I spent last Saturday at Broadway Market – snapping up the first of the summer’s stripy deck chairs and vainly sifting through wooden letter printing blocks looking for the evasive “&” for our Order of Service covers at The Dog and Wardrobe. And then on to the beautifully stocked vintage furniture boutique Stella Blunt, which had this gorgeous near-complete 40s dinner set in its window - I couldn’t resist taking a picture:

Meadow flowers and real confetti

I think the idea of skipping through meadows picking wildflowers on the wedding morning may have been a bit of a pipe dream! So the idea of Sweet Loving Flowers sounds like a good compromise to me (thanks for the tip, Lula!). It's a small company run by a husband-and-wife duo that grows pretty meadow flowers in an organic plot in Wales. The field was once grazed by sheep and is now blooming with flowers and wildlife. They also provide simple bouquets that have a lovely thrown-together look 

And then my colleague Lucy sent me a link to Confetti Direct, a small company that grows wild flowers, roses and delphiniums for real confetti. Petals are handpicked and packed on the farm at Wyke Manor in Worcestershire, and they also provide paper cones and baskets for display. The fields are covered in a blanket of colour when the flowers are in full bloom… what a beautiful place to live and work: 

Readers’ Vintage Weddings: Jo and Robert

Jo has her own vintage headdress and accessories business in Hampshire but travelled to the majestic Banff Springs hotel in Canada for a magical winter wedding. 

The theme: 30s elegance and old Hollywood glamour. A Jenny Packham “Alice” gown, feather boas and pearls as table décor.

 

Homemade things: Jo made her own alternative bouquet out of her Grandmother’s vintage brooches and her unique head-dress from vintage gems and jewellery. For favours, they bought old-fashioned sweets from the local shop in Banff and placed them in wine glasses along with handwritten thank-you notes. 

 

Vintage tips: Jo recommends sourcing vintage from the suppliers featured on Love My Dress – where she found her veil and bolero, which she finished off with a huge vintage brooch.

I've included some of Jo's gorgeous vintage creations below, that you can find on her website.

Vintage gift list ideas

Researching wedding gift lists is a perk of the wedding planning process, but trying to find vintage wedding lists has proved particularly tricky and I’m beginning to think that good old John Lewis is our best bet – it actually stocks a great selection of vintage-style products such as KitchenAid’s bright yellow blenders and Sophie Conran’s crockery range.

But I have managed to find a couple of great list companies online – The Vintage Wedding List has a beautiful selection of antiques on its site, including 40s stripy Cornish milk jugs, cut glass cake stands, Welsh woollen blankets and faded antique maps. And they’ve thought of the little details too - all the presents come wrapped in tissue paper with hand-written messages on luggage labels.

The Vintage Wedding List

I’ve spent many a lunch hour drooling over the gorgeous products on the Baileys Home and Garden website, but I hadn’t realised that they can also arrange wedding lists – perfect if you are looking for bigger items such as their wooden chapel chairs, industrial lamps and quirky recycled products such as crates on wheels or wooden welly racks.

Baileys